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"The adage "Truth is stranger than fiction" is certainly applicable in the case of Mommy I'm Still in Here: Raising Children with Bi-polar Disorder. Kate McLaughlin paints a picture of what appears to be a typical Norman Rockwell family who wakes up one morning to find itself trapped within a surreal image by Salvador Dali. In the course of a few short years, both of the McLaughlin teenagers find their lives overcome by severe cases of adolescent onset bipolar disorder. Despite a history of mental illness in the family, the author describes her shock as the lives of her near perfect daughter and later her son morph into something quite bizarre before her eyes. " "In this emotional journey, I felt like a friend and confidant rather than an onlooker as I accompanied McLaughlin into the depths of her children's rapid-cycling mania and depression. Her vivid descriptions of the physical and psychological changes that occurred, adapted from a personal journal, are as terrifying as any horror movie—almost beyond imagination, yet true. For those dealing with bi-polar disorder in their own family, the details of day-to-day challenges in dealing with doctors, therapists and issues relating to medicines will prove particularly helpful. Mommy I'm Still in Here is also an excellent resource for anyone working with adolescents." —Donna Satterlee Ross, co-editor of That's Life with Autism: Tales And Tips for Families With Autism, for MyShelf.com "Mommy I'm Still In Here is a true testament to your family's strength.a positive light to inspire others." —Maria Shriver "Mommy I'm Still In Here is sad and touching. Kate McLaughlin is a great writer and. a wonderful mom." —Rosie O'Donnell "It is wonderful that Kate McLaughlin is using her family's story to promote awareness of bipolar disorder and put an end to the stigma that so often accompanies it." —Tipper Gore
A range ofeasy-to-follow techniques and priceless wisdom including:·     Fiftyproven strategies for helping your child become well-adjusted despite yourdivorce·     Thelatest scientific findings made available and accessible to parents·     How toknow when to seek professional help for your children
I just love these guys! There are great tips on making divorce easier and less expensive...also filled with tips on what to look out for.
Step by step instructions onhow to put your life back in order, get motivated and discover the new lifeahead of you.
Manylong-term relationships fail due to unresolved “historical wounds” andunrealistic expectations.  Withemphasis on the body/mind/soul connection this book uses a holistic approachand a step-by-step program that explores childhood trauma, self-criticism andother painful feelings that reside in the body and mind.
Startsyou on the journey from playdough to real dough.  Shows you how to assess your career options, prepare for aninterview and market yourself so that you can find a new and exciting career
Straighttalk on how single moms can trust and love again.  Shows you how to:
  • Present your real self to others with confidence
  • Set realistic dating expectations
  • Learn new couple skills
  • Have great sex
  • Successfully blend your life with a new partner
It's about time management. By David Allen, this book is the most useful book I've ever read, hands down. Click here for more on the bok and here, to Allen's Website  for more information.
Up-to-date research on thepersonal and economic effect of divorce in adults’ and children’s lives.  Addresses the special challenges of becoming a single person in the age of AIDS.Offers a sense of hope and confidence that this transition is not only and ending,but can also be a valuable beginning.

Straight Up and Dirty

A Memoir

by
Stephanie Klein
I thought it was hysterical. It's a quick read and definitely made me feel better about many of the things that I did when I first got separated. It would definitely fall under the sex/romance category. More geared towards my age group I think (late 20's/early 30s), but then again....my mother is reading it.