When Is The Right Time To Hire a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Husband

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When Is The Right Time To Hire a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Husband

an interview with detective and private investigator, Jerry Palace

Posted to Debbie Does Divorce by Debbie Nigro on Wed, 09/15/2010 - 7:03am

"Adultery, cheating, being unfaithful, having an affair"... all words we dread to hear when it comes to our marriages. But according to a First Wives World poll of divorced and divorcing women, 43% of women's marriages ended because of infidelity, and 37% said infidelity was one of a factors their marriages ended.

If you suspect your spouse is cheating, there are a number of reasons to hire a private investigator to discover the truth as opposed to you going about it yourself:

Whether or not there is cheating going on, not knowing can drive you crazy and cause damage to your mental state.
For your own sanity you should not witness the affair yourself, because your emotions can sometimes lead to tragic outcomes.
If there is an affair going on, professional testimony falls to your favor more often than not in a court.

But when is the appropriate time to contact a private investigator? Above, Debbie talks to private investigator Jerry Palace to help determine when the time is right to contact a professional.

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Comments

I am unsure if my husband is

Submitted by Guest (not verified) on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 10:30pm.

I am unsure if my husband is cheating. I can't fiqure out how he has the time to. He works comes home and stays up late goes to bed wakes up and so on until weekend maybe he does signs because he has a small business doing signs so he may have time on the weekend but he usually takes our 5 yr old daughter so not sure. He is the supervisor on 2nd shift at work though and basically everyone reports to him so he could at work really nobody would know. He doesn't want to have sex with me anymore? Says he is burnt out or whatever. We have had a lot of problems been together for 12 years 6 married. He has been caught online by me many times porn and chatting with other girls including some of my ex friends. found p. o. box not our address he bought that was about 4 years ago though. so many things at the beginning never caught him actually cheating though. and now he may be different but all of a sudden he doesn't want sex anymore what? He is 35 but this is just not like him. It is almost like I have to have high heels and mini skirt on for him to give me any attention at all. I am really not sure but have always wanted to investigate just to put my mind at ease finally. Although maybe now he is different we have 2 kids but maybe I am purposely being blind. ugh I hate this. I love him sooooo much and always have he just is selfish that just it.

Cheating husband

Submitted by Felicia (not verified) on Sat, 07/28/2012 - 8:40am.

Hi, about a year ago my husband phone recorded him and his chick talking and his phone mistakenly dailed my number, anyway they were talking and that night I confronted him about it. However a couple of mouths ago before that I went for my yearly pap smear and found out in the mail that I had HPV at the time the letter came to the house I talk to him about it and asked him if he was cheating he said no, 1 to 2 months later i herd the voicemail. We have been together since 1995 and been married for 2 years. We were comfortable living as an Unmarried couple we now have a 15 year old son and soon to be 3year old twins. Now things are not the same I don't trust him at all and as far as our sex life it's not healthy at all. I still think he's cheating and he shows all the signs. What should I do?

is my man cheating?

Submitted by elsieGuest (not verified) on Tue, 05/01/2012 - 2:29pm.

well to start off with our relationship was great. then several times during our relationship he cheated, i stayed because he kept begging me to. then after we got married he grew distant. he started ignoring me, not wanting to sleep by me, not talking to me. and just recently he wants to hang out at the club alot with his co worker. i dont know what to do. im lucky if we have sex once a month. if that. i need some advice. im not sure what to do.%

If he cheated on you before

Submitted by kari (not verified) on Mon, 07/09/2012 - 9:56am.

If he cheated on you before its more likely that he is cheating on you at this moment. And I am sorry to say this but if he married you is probably from jealousy; meaning doesn't wanna see you with another Guy. Sounds confusing but its so true. So think about it, its never to late, oh btw don't try to find out yourself if he is or not because he will get very aversive and you don't want to see a man like that, cause he will do so much stuff to you. So be careful and think about UT..and don't stay with him just because you love him. There's other guys out there who wouldn't do this to someone... so once again think about it. :)

Hey my man cheated I found

Submitted by Garcia (not verified) on Sun, 12/04/2011 - 12:20am.

Hey my man cheated I found out the same day he had sex for the first time with the othet girl . I have to beautiful girls with him but I feel like he may do the same thing again. I feel like I should just leave him and I just dont wan him around my kids if I leave him sinces he had the ballz to say that he did not have any kids and just spend the time with that b__ tch . She was 36 year old and Iam 21 can u believe that

help me through this

Submitted by Sandy (not verified) on Fri, 02/13/2009 - 9:53pm.

My husband and I have been together for eight years and have always faught not bad but it was pretty good fights always calling names and hurting each other to make one another feel even more worst . But the last few years have been awful he and I have been in jail me once and him twice me for pushing him and him for choking me and pulling me by my hair out of our house and locking me outside. He is a good man but has a very bad temper and always has had a bad temper even with his family he is very angry all the time November he decided that he was tired of being with me and tired of the fighting but now everything is my fault and he and i still have been sleeping together but he has this friend" as he puts it that he hangs with all the time she is very pretty and skinnier than me and a little younger he is always with her the other day when he stayed the night i went through his phone and there were messages from her to him about being naked and he told her he wanted to see im so lost and alone i have three childern but i still cant get the emptiness out or move on with my life im so hung on him and what he is doing that it is really driving me to think that why am i here i cant take anymore pain from him he has told me he wants a divorce but is always coming here to get some and then he leaves and i allow him to just so i feel like im still something to him he tells me he loves me but dont want me but still comes over and has sex with me and tells me he misses me and our childern being at home he is 27 does he really want the divorce or is this his way of having a wild hair is he sleeping with that girl i really need a friend that knows what they are talking about to help me through my feelings and this seperation somebody anybody please help me Thanks Sandy

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