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Budgeting Basics For Life After Divorce

Essential tips for creating a budget and trimming expenses post divorce

Posted to by Rachel Small on Fri, 09/02/2011 - 4:01am

Financial experts suggest that the biggest economic burden from divorce falls on women and children. On average, after a divorce they suffer a 45% reduction in standard of living.

At this time of great emotional pain, making ends meet becomes a daunting task. I've put together a few strategies for money management and living within a budget for all the women out there facing the post-divorce financial crunch.

Changing your lifestyle isn't easy, but if you keep these tips in mind, you can survive post-divorce financial troubles. Don't let yourself and your family become part of the rising debt statistics — manage your money wisely.

Create a Budget:

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5 Tips to Successful Independence After Divorce

Why you need to learn to say NO more often

Posted to by Naomi Dunne on Wed, 09/01/2010 - 10:09am

If you're anything like every other working divorced mother on the planet, you have too much on your plate.

You also have a really, really hard time saying no.

For a while after a divorce, when we have nothing better to do or we're trying to make friends or build our career, being asked to do things for other people makes us feel needed and wanted. It's wonderful to feel like you're an important part of other people's lives. Eventually, though, it gets tiring. Eventually, you've said yes too many times, leaving you focussed on anything but regaining control of your life after your divorce.

Eventually, you need to stop.

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Why Even Wealthy Divorcees Need To Work

Posted to by Maryann Kelly on Thu, 08/19/2010 - 8:36am

People often ask me how I define a wealthy divorcee. Simply put, I consider someone wealthy if she could live off the interest of her investments without touching principal or selling any assets.

In practical terms, living off of interest alone requires a nest egg that's at least 400 times your monthly expenses. For instance, if you need $20,000 a month after taxes to pay your bills you would require at least $8 million a year in principal, assuming your investment yielded around 5 percent a year, or $400,000. (After taxes, you'd be left with around $240,000 of that amount — assuming you paid around 40 percent in taxes — which would come to $20,000 a month).

But here's one thing I can assure you of: Not many people with $8 million on hand have the discipline to live on $20,000 per month.

What's more, even if you decided to live on $20,000 a month in the short term, over time special expenses and cost of living adjustments would push that figure higher. Further, as you got older and your life span shortened you might begin to spend some principal.

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Ladies Who Launch

Debbie Does Divorce with Beth Schoenfeldt

Posted to by Debbie Nigro on Sun, 06/27/2010 - 9:10am

Debbie talks to Beth Schoenfeldt, a partner in Ladies Who Launch LLC, an organization that enables women to network with like-minded women who are pursuing their entrepreneurial and creative passions. Learn how to connect with others who are starting their own businesses and other creative ventures.

Click the following for entire list of helpful articles on Career and Pursuits Post Divorce.

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Keep The Fight, Lose The Struggle

My passion for divorce issues

Posted to by Cathy Meyer on Wed, 06/02/2010 - 8:05am

You might say I have a passion for divorce, all aspects of divorce. This peculiar passion took root while I was going through my own divorce.

I went into the process with my ears backed and determined to protect myself emotionally and financially. Little did I know that it was going to take more than backed ears and determination to survive what the divorce process had in store for this girl! 

My divorce became final in 1999; I had been married 14 years. The word "final" took on an entirely new meaning when it came to my divorce.

I recall being excited over the terms of the divorce agreement only to have an elderly neighbor inform me that it was nothing but a "promise on a piece of paper." As he burst my bubble, he explained to me that my divorce decree was only of value to me if my former husband held up his end of the agreement.

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Maureen Wild, Certified Etiquette and Ethics Trainer

featured expert, President of High Road Solutions

Posted to by First Wives World on Mon, 05/10/2010 - 4:10pm

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Maureen Wild, President of High Road Solutions, is a certified business etiquette and workplace ethics seminar leader. Businesses who value the distinction of providing polished, ethical customer service have discovered that investing in protocol and ethics training is invaluable for presenting and maintaining a peerless reputation.

Maureen Wild obtained her professional certification from Michael Josephson at the internationally renowned Josephson Institute of Ethics in Los Angeles. She acquired her etiquette credentials from The Protocol School of Washington, Washington, D.C. which advises the Washington Diplomatic Community. Additionally, she has lived abroad where she completed duties as a NATO hostess.

Maureen has delivered etiquette and ethics seminars for Marriott International, Prudential Insurance Co., NeighborCare Institutional Pharmacy, Nordstrom Specialty Stores, Benchmark Hospitality, The NJ Society of CPAs, Ortho-Biotech, and prominent NJ colleges and universities as well as ... (read more)
 

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Lisa Steadman, Reinvention Coach

featured expert

Posted to by First Wives World on Mon, 05/10/2010 - 9:17am

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Internationally acclaimed heartbreak reinvention coach Lisa Steadman works with women who are ready to heal the pain of the past and step into their brilliant futures.

She’s the best selling author of It's A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life - for good! and the follow up workbook It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him. She regularly contributes to the media, including appearances on The Today Show, The Tyra Banks Show, Playboy Radio, and New Zealand’s Good Morning. Lisa lives in Southern California with her husband, whom she met and married after successfully surviving and thriving following her Big Breakup.

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