When to Hire a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Spouse

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When to Hire a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Spouse

Debbie Does Divorce with Jerry Palace

Posted to Debbie Does Divorce by Debbie Nigro on Tue, 02/17/2009 - 11:30am

Adultery, cheating, being unfaithful, having an affair... all words we dread to hear when it comes to our marriage. But according to our recent poll, 43% of women's marriages ended because of infidelity.

If you suspect your spouse is cheating, there are a number of reasons to hire a private investigator to discover the truth as opposed to you going about it yourself:

Whether or not there is cheating going on, not knowing can drive you crazy and cause damage to your mental state.
For your own sanity you should not witness the affair yourself, because your emotions can sometimes lead to tragic outcomes.
If there is an affair going on, professional testimony falls to your favor more often than not in a court.

But when is the appropriate time to contact a private investigator? Above, Debbie talks to private investigator Jerry Palace to help determine when the time is right to contact a professional.

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3 Financial Clues That He's Looking for a Divorce — a video interview with Financial Expert, Lili Vasileff

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help me through this

Submitted by Sandy (not verified) on Fri, 02/13/2009 - 9:53pm.

My husband and I have been together for eight years and have always faught not bad but it was pretty good fights always calling names and hurting each other to make one another feel even more worst . But the last few years have been awful he and I have been in jail me once and him twice me for pushing him and him for choking me and pulling me by my hair out of our house and locking me outside. He is a good man but has a very bad temper and always has had a bad temper even with his family he is very angry all the time November he decided that he was tired of being with me and tired of the fighting but now everything is my fault and he and i still have been sleeping together but he has this friend" as he puts it that he hangs with all the time she is very pretty and skinnier than me and a little younger he is always with her the other day when he stayed the night i went through his phone and there were messages from her to him about being naked and he told her he wanted to see im so lost and alone i have three childern but i still cant get the emptiness out or move on with my life im so hung on him and what he is doing that it is really driving me to think that why am i here i cant take anymore pain from him he has told me he wants a divorce but is always coming here to get some and then he leaves and i allow him to just so i feel like im still something to him he tells me he loves me but dont want me but still comes over and has sex with me and tells me he misses me and our childern being at home he is 27 does he really want the divorce or is this his way of having a wild hair is he sleeping with that girl i really need a friend that knows what they are talking about to help me through my feelings and this seperation somebody anybody please help me Thanks Sandy

When to Hire a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Spouse

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