Divorce Support Group For Women: Infidelity Survivors

A group for women whose divorces ended because of infidelity

Posted to House Bloggers by First Wives World on Tue, 10/26/2010 - 7:47am

Two years ago, my husband came to me and told me he had been having an affair, for a year and a half. I was completely blindsided and numb with shock.

No, our marriage hadn't been perfect, is anyone's? He was begging forgiveness, and wanted to work on the marriage. Of course, being a stay at home mother and totally unable to see my life any other way, i agreed. "Let's work it out, we can get past it,, i can change...i'll be better," I said.

Where could i turn at that point for support, to my happily married friends? Everyone had a normal marriage except for me! I was ashamed and embarrassed. I ran to marriage counseling and Victoria's Secret. I was funnier, sexier, skinnier.

Well i am in the final stages of divorce now and my husband and this woman live around the corner from me. The pain is unbearable as is the humiliation. But, along this journey i have met SO MANY WOMEN who have been through it or are going through it or whom will be going through it soon enough ....

This group for all of us whose divorce ended because of infidelity.

Click the following to join the group, Infidelity Survivors

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too good to be true

Submitted by will the pain ever stop? (not verified) on Sun, 09/02/2012 - 7:02am.

i have been engaged and living with a man for almost ten years.. he is 7 years younger. i have 3kids and together we have bben rasiing them.. they look at him as if he is their dad. Did every dad thing. we havent fought.. he is my bf , cant sleep unless my head is on his chest. well the kis started telling me he was going out while i was at wrk. (11pm to 7am at a nursing home) i also goto school during day.. so he has been doing more so i toook off 5wks frm school and everything came outhe has been seeing this girl while i wrk he cheatedon me 4 years ago with one of my closest friends and another girl when he wrked out of town, i feel like someone punched me in the chest.. im so hurt, upset, i ws even married before and this relationship was so much stronger and im compltely inlove.. i cant imagine him with someone else let alone like he has been. my xhusbnad cheated too once and it was over and my fiance promised and i said please dnt cheat just go.. i dont know what to do. we were to get married later this yr. after being together every day for 10 years and two months.. and im already replaced by a younger girl. im 37 he is 30. Anyone have any suggestions how can get over im and sleep and eat and not think about him with her and even my former friends

Divorce Support Group For Women: Infidelity Survivors

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