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First the backstory. On Sunday my late brother Stephen's beautiful wife remarried.
His 11 year old daughter was a flower girl and his two boys ages 11 and 10 walked their mom down the aisle and gave her away.
Waiting at the altar was her lovely new husband. His 16 year old daughter and his 14 year old son from a previous marriage were also in the ceremony.
Suffice to say it was a bittersweet day for my family.
Tears of sadness flowed as freely as the notes from the saxophone playing in church, as we watched his family move on without him.
Tears of joy flowed too, for this wonderful new opportunity and for this blended family that found each other to move forward with.
The party was classy and full of love and my sister-in-law and her new hubby left for a two-day mini honeymoon in NYC.
I volunteered to sleep over and handle things on day two.
The kids live in my old house. My brother had bought it from my mom.
It's decorated different but its the same house.
I took the kids out to dinner, struggled through homework and finally needed to lay down.
It didn't matter where, but the kids wanted me to sleep in my sister-in-law's room.
I cannot tell you how it felt laying there. It had been years.
It was my parents room at one time and visions of my late father laying on the bed watching football came rushing back. Gone.
Then I imagined my brother lying where he used to in this very same room. Gone.
Now his kids jump in bed with me and want to talk about their dad because I am one of the closest things left to him and they need to talk about him.
We do.
We also talk about this new wonderful man who loves my sister-in-law and them, and his kids who are now officially their step-brother and sister.
They are happy. I am happy they are happy.
We all sleep together.
It'll be the last night this happens since this new man is about to move in and there needs to be new respect for mommy's bedroom, I explained.
So there you have it. Last night, I slept with my niece and two nephews and I am pretty sure that the jolts of their body parts being flung over me all night cost me an ovary, which is fine, because I probably only have one egg left anyway.
Ah — but for them...A wonderful new family is born.
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