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Taking The 'Ex' Out Of Sex
The results of First Wives World's latest poll are in and they're, uh, rather surprising. We asked you how much sex you're having each month and found that 55 percent of the 10,000 divorcées surveyed answered "none."
Another 22 percent of those surveyed said they were "lucky to get it" one to three times a month, 13 percent of the divorced women polled said they had sex three to six times a month. And 11 percent claimed they had "more than I'll ever admit to."
Well, you told us! Now your task for today, along with juggling job, kids, home, social activities and extended family is to go out and cultivate your inner sex goddess. Maybe it's dressing a bit more provocatively (okay, don't go overboard if you're in a conservative office!), saying hello to the guy at the coffee stand or just projecting a beautiful smile. But whatever it is, do it with positive energy and you'll be reeling in men before too long. At least that's what they say!
Click here for more about the poll in today's New York Post.
Thank God
A friend referred me to your site and the first thing I did was answer this poll. I can't tell you how relieved I was to realize that I'm not the only one out there. I was beginning to think I must be doing something seriously wrong in my life. Whew!
You have to feel sexy
In order to be sexy in others eyes you have to feel sexy in your own eyes. Be comfortable in your own skin so to speak. Know your body and what you like in regard to sex.
I was in a 15 year marriage where the last 5 were almost completely sexless. It took me a while and a partner that is totally uninhibited to really feel confident in myself sexually. No matter what happens with my man and I, I now know that it is Ok to trust another person and have fun while doing it!
T
(New and Healthy) Sex Life
Okay, Ladies, what is your advice/input for those of us who have only "been" with our long-term sexual partners for 20+ years?! While my fantasies seem to be alive and well-populated by every attractive male I notice, how in the world will I ever get to that point of physical intimacy again? Yes, I do miss that part of my life as a married woman, but I worry that I'll never get to know someone and trust them enough (ah, there is the key, I think!) to be comfortable in experiencing a healthy (and fun) sexual encounter/relationship! Anyone watched the movie "Must Love Dogs"? I just did this weekend (twice) ... will that be me on a date, racing around town for a condom, and then fall out of the mood?! I'm scared ... but I kind of CAN'T WAIT !!!! :-)
The more sex we have the
The more sex we have the better! Not only is it fun- all of the health benefits! A healthy sex life equals a healthy life period! (Be safe everyone!)
CM