I'm thanking the gods I work from home and there are few places my two feet and my bike can't take me. Because every buck I put into my gas tank is food I don't buy at the grocery store.

Gas at the cheapie station is holding at $4.17 this week. Everywhere else in town it's closing in on $4.30.

At that price, one gallon of gas costs more than 70 percent of the federal hourly minimum wage, $5.85. It’s still two-thirds of the new federal minimum wage that takes effect on July 24, and it's more than half the highest state minimum, $8.07, in the State of Washington.

Consider that the lowest paid workers pump almost a whole day's pay into the tank every time they fill it up. Even people making a decent wage, say $20 an hour, are spending an entire morning’s work just to pay for gas.

It's the same all over. In our must-have culture, where most families have to have two incomes in order to survive, people from the top to the middle and on down, everything is being eliminated but the basics.

No one is immune. For single moms, it's getting ugly.

Christina McLaughlin, "KristieMac" wrote about the impact of rising gas prices on her blog for the Houston Chronicle's Chron.com. She posted personal experiences, giving thanks for the good fortune of flexible work and having enough to cover bills, while lamenting economic pressure and the nixed vacation she dreamed of taking with her daughter.

Canceled vacation plans, fewer outside-the-home activities, less eating out, and just plan less. One by one every extra is slashed to make way for gas and groceries.

But, what happens when there are no more extras to cut, no more plans to cancel? Me, I'm what happens.

I can't work from coffee shops anymore. It costs four bucks, and I'm already paying for Wi-Fi at home. I’m driving only every other day. I keep trips to under 10 miles. I give the good food – fresh fruit and veggies – for my kids, and eat pasta myself.

There are days when I can afford only one meal for myself. I know it's not forever. I know I'm not alone. And I am alright. My kids don't know deprivation. I know that millions of people face much worse.

What I don't get is the brutal responses to Christina McLaughlin's courageous post. She was flamed, and accused of living above her means.
The thing is, she didn't whine about giving up the yacht or selling the second home. This is a single mom who was forced to scrap the kind of small pleasures requisite for staying sane – a road trip to Sea World and a couple of days at camp for her kid.

I feel for you, girl. Exxon Mobil is posting record earnings. Its $40.6 billion take last year was the biggest annual profit posted by any U.S. company in history.

Folks… don’t be mad at Christina McLaughlin for wanting to take her daughter to Sea World.

You’re mad at the wrong people.