Hey First Wives World readers!

A reader wrote us to say that she's going through a divorce and it turns out that her soon-to-be ex is a cross-dresser. She was short on the details so we don't know whether this was what sparked the divorce or not. In any event, she asks whether any of you have encountered this issue and can offer some advice.

Do you have an ex with a fetish? What was the nature of the fetish? Did the fetish or secret desire cause the disintegration of the marriage or was it just one of the reasons you ended the relationship?

If your ex was a cross-dresser, help our reader out here. Or even if he wasn't, feel free to offer some advice.