OK, so I didn't date a whole lot before I got married to my ex. I was 16, so never was in any kind of "scene," "pool," or playing people games. I really want to get out on the "market" though and meet some people. I know that I am a great person and I deserve to have some companionship and have someone appreciate me.

I do worry about finding someone that can have a respect and admiration for me as a person that has children, which I'm assuming is going to be somewhat challenging to find. Ultimately, I don't see myself having any more children. I don't really want more children. Not that this won't ever change for me, but in my mind, right now, what I have on my plate is more than my fair share.

I don't want to lie to anyone either though. I'm a very direct person and don't think it should be hidden that I have children — not to mention that my car has safety seats and my calendar is plastered with photographs of them. So, it would not be easy for me to hide that information if I wanted to, and I don't.

So, here I am world. I'm ready to dive into the sea of people and try to float amongst them.