I help take care of my 90-year-old grandmother. She lives alone and is mostly independent, but doesn't drive. I assist her by taking her to all her doctors' appointments, doing some household chores, and taking her to the grocery store. She's currently receiving regular injections, and I scheduled this month's appointment for the 14th.

This was not done unconsciously. I figured this day might bring me down some, and having something extra to do would keep me busy. Not to mention having the blessed opportunity to spend another day with the woman who has been such a wonderful presence in my life.

I do not need man to have a good Valentine's day. I just need to spend it with someone I love and someone who actually loves me unconditionally in return. That is a combination I have never found in a man.

Therefore, this Valentine's Day I will be with my grandmother. We will both have a Valentine and will have a wonderful day together, I am sure. We will make one more memory together, and this to me is better than any box of chocolate or flowers I have ever received. It will be real and mean so much more than hollow gifts given out of guilt.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone — spend it with someone you love and someone that loves you in return.