http://www.firstwivesworld.com Comments for "Video" en http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/its-just-hormones#comment-5772 Thanks Sarah. Super important message. I have felt everything you described and want to chime in. Get checked - the other side with the right medicine feels so much better!! Sat, 19 Jul 2008 13:28:17 -0400 Guest comment 5772 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/debbie-does-divorce/debbie-nigro/he-said-she-said-part-1#comment-5770 I really enjoyed this one.Tony is adorable! After 9 months of living alone, I have to agree with you on the last question! Thu, 17 Jul 2008 11:33:41 -0400 Sarah Farthing comment 5770 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/debbie-does-divorce/debbie-nigro/what-wear-the-first-date-the-second-time-around#comment-5753 Sharon is great. I am so glad to listen to a fashion person who understands where I am coming from and has a sense of humor without being negative or a elitist like they do in those reality shows. Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:26:22 -0400 Guest comment 5753 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/those-places#comment-5736 Beautiful homage to the past. I'm glad you still have places where the presence of your love and falling in love are still so available to you. It's a gift that doesn't ever need to be "re-gifted"! Mon, 30 Jun 2008 07:20:56 -0400 Guest comment 5736 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/those-places#comment-5734 Your post meant more to me than you can know. I was married at a lighthouse. Lately I've been wondering if I can ever go back there, or to any lighthouse. You don't realize how many lighthouses there are in America until they become a symbol of your whole life! I've been wanting to return to "our" lighthouse, but frankly I don't think I can handle it right now. Maybe some day. Meanwhile, thank you. Sat, 28 Jun 2008 20:06:59 -0400 bargee comment 5734 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/debbie-does-divorce/debbie-nigro/increase-your-value-the-workplace#comment-5707 Spot pn comments about the sticky workplace issues we all encounter. Keep her on the show! Thu, 19 Jun 2008 14:31:53 -0400 Guest comment 5707 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/you-cant-go-back#comment-5702 Really rocks! It always did, but who you are and what you bring to your friendships just gets more rich and extraordinary every day forward. Just brilliant! Sat, 14 Jun 2008 13:40:35 -0400 Guest comment 5702 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/its-all-in-the-haircut#comment-5701 Whatever! Cute haircut, efficient, classy, fun...I suppose a boy could be all those things too, but it's true...it's never about the cut anyhow. The cut just adds style! Course there is always a shaved head...then he wouldn't have to worry about the cut at all! Sat, 14 Jun 2008 13:36:01 -0400 Guest comment 5701 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/you-cant-go-back#comment-5695 Thank you all! I agree, bargee, the crystal metaphor is lovely. And the first guest is right, she may not be lost, just waiting for this "limbo" of separation to be over. I also agree that Karate gave me some skills that played directly into having a marriage based on mutual respect. My old passions may return some day, but I am looking forward to exploring some new ones soon. There's nothing like a divorce to give one the latitude to do some serious self exploration, right? May I take the opportunity to point out out what an eloquent bunch you are? I just love these responses. They are a treasure to me. Fri, 13 Jun 2008 19:50:10 -0400 Sarah Farthing comment 5695 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/you-cant-go-back#comment-5694 Just wanted to say that I really appreciate your honesty and openness about these personal subjects. I think we all think back at times in our lives when we loved who we were and would like to go back and be "her" again. Unfortunately, and fortunately, life moves forward. Old passions may return. And new passions will show up. The exciting part is that what lies ahead is never what you know, or what you imagined it to be. It's full of mystery and surprises, and full of the unknown. And there's something irreplaceably exciting about that. Fri, 13 Jun 2008 07:36:00 -0400 Guest comment 5694 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/you-cant-go-back#comment-5693 a brown belt? that is incredibly cool and no one can ever take that away from you. whether you get the black belt or not, you kick ass, literally and metaphorically. and i love the reply from Guest. i'm going to try to spend the day tomorrow being made of crystal! Thu, 12 Jun 2008 21:06:21 -0400 bargee comment 5693 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/you-cant-go-back#comment-5692 Sarah, I think you may not have lost her entirely. She is in there waiting for the moment when she is most needed. She has become an aspect of the even greater, larger and wiser you. Your past continues to inform you. Only change is inevitable and the more we bring to the present moment the better we are to handle whatever may come. Perhaps you would not have weathered this separation as well as you have without the inner knowledge of determination, strength, balance, protection and growth you found in Karate. The earlier you is always within you but with a more discerning and discriminating eye. If we were made of crystal, each new mark would only make us reflect more light. You are beautiful! Thu, 12 Jun 2008 11:47:51 -0400 Guest comment 5692 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/i-said-no#comment-5691 sometimes saying no is the same thing as saying yes--to something else. congrats on finding the strength. i know the freelance lifestyle and it's not always easy. but you'll be just fine. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 22:07:21 -0400 bargee comment 5691 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/i-said-no#comment-5690 sometimes saying no is the same thing as saying yes--to something else. congrats on finding the strength. i know the freelance lifestyle and it's not always easy. but you'll be just fine. Wed, 11 Jun 2008 22:02:03 -0400 bargee comment 5690 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/its-all-in-the-haircut#comment-5689 I'm just grateful I was born in a century that is breaking open these stereotypes! Maybe this means I can now admit to having 5 boxes of comic books in my closet? Oops... too much information. (No - I'm not a fanboy in woman's clothing. Really, I'm not.) And thanks! I love it too! Wed, 11 Jun 2008 11:50:56 -0400 Sarah Farthing comment 5689 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com