firstwivesworld - Notebooks And Post-Its - Comments http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its Comments for "Notebooks And Post-Its" en thanks for passing that on... http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its#comment-5495 "When someone walks away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who has left." Wow. This is something I needed to hear today. It's going right on a Post-It by my computer. I hope I can eventually pass it on to someone else who needs it someday... Thanks. Sun, 18 May 2008 18:51:38 -0400 bargee comment 5495 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com Notebooks And Post-Its http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its <p>I carry a notebook around with me. When I read a sentence I find particularly beautiful (&quot;her heart a red cup of fierceness tucked among ordinary things&quot;) or when someone says something particularly hilarious (&quot;I didn't hear you because when I walk I hear the music from <i>Peter and the Wolf</i> in my head&quot;), or something that resonates in some way, I write it down. Sometimes one sentence, put together in just that way brings a little more sense into my world. I like quotes. I like bits and pieces. I like the way other people string words together. </p><p>When Jake called and told me that he didn't think he'd be back, he was in China. He said, &quot;I've been thinking about it, and I don't know if I'll be coming home at all.&quot;</p><p>I have one of those &quot;quote of the day&quot; widgets on my computer. The day after that call it said: &quot;When someone walks away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who has left.&quot; </p> <p>I don't know why it is that if someone else says it, it means something more. I assume that's true for all of us. Why else do we clip newspapers? Quote songs? Read a stranger's blog on a Web site, for that matter? </p> <p>Sometimes it's that someone else has found the words I can't. </p> <p>Sometimes it's knowing I'm not the only one who feels this way. </p> <p>Sometimes the fact that it's someone else gives the words the credibility I can't find in my own head. </p> <p>After staring at it for a while, I wrote it on a Post-It and stuck to it to the wall by the door. Later, it moved to the bathroom mirror.</p><p><a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its">read more</a></p> http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its#comments inspirational quotes navigating divorce Mind and Spirit Navigating Divorce Sat, 17 May 2008 10:00:00 -0400 Alice Brooks 6806 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com