firstwivesworld - Breaking Through the Haze - Comments http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/breaking-through-the-haze Comments for "Breaking Through the Haze" en Breaking Through the Haze http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/breaking-through-the-haze <p>Funny thing happens when you leave your bubble — you meet people. </p><p>Technically, I didn't even leave my bubble. I was sitting on a concrete slab on campus when a gentleman approached me. He was tall, well spoken, and confident, and politely introduced himself to my friend and me, as well as apologized for interrupting our conversation. </p><p>What I like most was the fact that he wasn't NYC-coiffed — you know, too well groomed as to reflect a bit of self-centeredness. That kind of primping always turns me off. </p><p>During our brief conversation, I learned that he is in the process of completing his MFA, which also leant itself to his disheveled appearance. I can appreciate that, as there are days where there is room to doubt — based on my appearance — that I am a member of a civilized species. </p><p>Long story short, I gave him a card with my number and email address. I figured what the hell, he represented himself so well that I would be a fool not to at least check things out. </p><p>I suppose now that things are beginning to wind down, that I may be slightly more relaxed than I have been in months past, which in turn makes it easier for people to approach me. </p><p>While I am not completely in the clear — I still have finals to get through, a job to find and I still have to move, it may be time to start branching out. </p> http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/breaking-through-the-haze#comments dating flirtation flirting graduation school work Mind and Spirit Moving Beyond Divorce Tue, 13 May 2008 07:26:34 -0400 Akillah Wali 6775 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com