How teens handle divorce

Guest — Fri, 09 May 2008 23:06:17 -0400

Very insightful article! I agree, very good advice. Both parents and teenage children need to talk and talk alot. As long as it takes and as much as they both want to. you sem very grounded. i wish you the best and brightest future. There are alot of teens out there who could benefit from your words. Keep up the good talk!

From a Child of Divorce: How Teens Handle Divorce

A.J. — Fri, 09 May 2008 08:24:48 -0400

The basic and average family unit consists of one maternal unit, one paternal unit, and on average two child units. This is the way children (including myself) are taught. That is what they believe to be unequivocally true along with such things as 2+2=4 and their ABC's. What divorce is, in the most stripped-down and harshest of terms, is the destruction of the basic family unit and a core belief in your child.

Depending on age and lifestyle-based circumstances, I guess you could say that your child will be affected in millions of different ways and possibilities than the kid next door or even me. That being said, I bet you're wondering, "What about my teenager? How will s/he deal with this?" It's floating somewhere in your mind, and frankly, it's a matter of great concern.

I was a few months into my sixteenth year of life when my parents decided to get a divorce. Granted, it was more of a one-sided decision, but that's a story for another day. Right now, let's just focus on your teenager. Firstly, we know that your teen is very in tune with their family unit, they've had at least thirteen years to get used to it, and probably have become attached to it by now. We also can safely assume that they observe, and mentally note the matter that their parents have been fighting an awful lot. Well, I'm going to share with you a secret about your teen. They're afraid of a lot of things, even if under torture they would never admit it! In the back of their heads, every time a huge argument breaks out in the house is this little thought bubble that asks "What if Mom and Dad got divorced?".

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How teens handle divorce

From a Child of Divorce: How Teens Handle Divorce