firstwivesworld - Only in New York - Comments http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/only-in-new-york Comments for "Only in New York" en You really needed that right http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/only-in-new-york#comment-5003 You really needed that right in that moment. I love when people are awesome for no reason- and the best thing you did was to thank them. Pay it forward to someone tomorrow and help someone else find a spring in their step! CM Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:34:12 -0400 Guest comment 5003 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com Only in New York http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/only-in-new-york <p>Ironically, about 48 hours after the &quot;you look tired&quot; comment, I received another completely contradictory compliment. </p><p>The other afternoon, I was visiting my friendly neighborhood housewares store — buying water filters and inquiring about boxes, as the time to start packing is now. Okay, so it's actually next week — or the week after... whatever. </p><p>So I am standing there chatting up the owner when these two women burst onto the scene. They are talking so fast that in my ridiculously fatigued state I can't even register what they are going on about. After a few moments, I catch on — they're sisters and lifelong residents of the neighborhood, who also happen to be a bit klutzy, and have to replace things often. Today's trip to the store marks another day when one of them had knocked something over. </p><p>They immediately approach the counter where Bob (the owner) and I are standing. They acknowledge my presence, and I theirs. One of the sisters stops rattling on long enough to turn and speak to me. </p><p>&quot;You are absolutely <i>gorgeous.</i>&quot; Turns to her sister. &quot;Isn't she gorgeous?&quot; The sister agrees. What I really was: embarrassed. Why? Who knows? Other than the fact that I don't like people making a big fuss over me, there was no reason for me to be embarrassed. </p><p>I thanked them profusely for their compliment, made a joke about needing to leave my apartment more often, paid for my water filters and went along my merry way, with more spring in my step than when I arrived. <br /><br /> </p> http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/only-in-new-york#comments House and Home Moving Beyond Divorce Thu, 10 Apr 2008 09:00:25 -0400 Akillah Wali 6329 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com