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hmm

Guest — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 02:44:53 -0500

make sure to keep an eye on things, i've heard of therapist going after a spouse.

I've been told that passive

Guest — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 13:32:32 -0500

I've been told that passive aggressive bs is the hardest to break. Good for you guys.

You're absolutely right, she should sing it!

Guest — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 01:32:38 -0500

She should and it wouldn't be the first time she's sung a holiday tune, I have proof!

Love it!

Guest — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 19:06:51 -0500

Debbie this is fabulous! I could visualize every word!

Don't sweat the small stuff

Guest — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 12:11:51 -0500

It sounds like your therapist is going after the bigger issues and not focusing in the small stuff. I'm sure you will get your turn, I just hope it is before it is too late. Sometimes those little things can drive you crazy till you just want to bang your head against a wall. Give it a little more time before you start going crazy, and there is nothing wrong with being more vocal, after all you are in the therapy too for a reason. Your thoughts and feelings need to be heard too, no matter who is paying for the sessions!

Divorce awards of the year

Guest — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 12:05:12 -0500

This is too funny. What a great recap of the year!

Kids and cell phones

Guest — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 16:58:41 -0500

I think this is a major step in the right direction. This is the fastest way to get in contact with your child and for them to get in contact with you. In today's society parents should always be just a ring away from their children. It comes down to both a safety issue and an emotional one.

Children and divorce

Guest — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 10:18:55 -0500

I could not agree with you more. Divorce is a fact of life these days but if you are a good parent and think of your children first you can minimize the pain. The resource section is a great place to get information on kids, family and how to raise healthy children: http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource_directory/kids-family-and-divorc...

Rooting for you

Guest — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 08:19:53 -0500

We're all rooting for you Faith. I can't wait to read that you've finally found the right man for you and your son. He's out there,there's just a lot of jerks in between.

The Child centric divorce

Guest — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 03:07:02 -0500

Certainly if divorce can't be banned, at least it should be child-centric. by Divorce Saloon, New York www.divorcesaloon.com

12 Days of Christmas

Guest — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 15:29:49 -0500

I can wait to hear this either. Maybe you can do a video or something as well.

Men out there

Guest — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 13:47:09 -0500

I'm 32 and I am definitely starting to feel my years, although men will still cat call out to me. My friend/ex coworker went through a lot of difficulty when she hit 55 because men DID NOT acknowledge or notice her nearly as much anymore. Take comfort in that men are still paying attention to you because that time passes quickly enough. And sorry about the divorce - that bites no matter what.

Breast Cancer and healthy relationships

Guest — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 12:58:54 -0500

I guess this would make sense since we know stress and other environmental and emotional factors can effect us all health wise. Mental health effects physical health. Times like that you have to ask yourself have hard are you willing to fight to survive?

Are there any gentlemen out there anymore?

Guest — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 12:44:42 -0500

I know it can be daunting when it comes to the landscape of men in our city but trust me there are some really princes out there that still know how to treat a lady. You just have to get through all the crazy toads first...and all the baggage that comes with them. But as I've always said, "When you least expect it the right one will come along". For me the best guys have always come into my life when I was the most secure in myself. Then they would just drop from outer space! Hang in there :)

Twelve Days...

Guest — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 12:29:46 -0500

Debbie this is really funny. I would love to hear you sing it! Start singing lady! The Twelve Divorced Days of Christmas (fa la la)